Wednesday, February 24, 2016

MARCH 2016 - In Like A Lion!

March enters like a lion... You can say it takes courage to come to Toastmasters, to overcome one's fear and step up to speak!


Quotes & Cartoon by Steve Garvin

Aslan: You doubt your value. Don't run from who you are.
~ C.S. Lewis, Prince Caspian

I am impelled, not to squeak like a grateful and apologetic mouse, but to roar like a lion out of pride in my profession.
~ John Steinbeck

It’s better to be a free dog than a caged lion.
-Arabian Proverb

I was the shyest human ever invented, but I had a lion inside me that wouldn’t shut up!
-Ingrid Bergman

Fainthearted animals move about in herds. The lion walks alone in the desert. Let the poet always walk thus.
-Alfred Victor Vigny

Don’t ask me who’s influenced me. A lion is made up of the lambs he’s digested, and I’ve been reading all my life.
-Charles de Gaulle

Be inspired and aspire to the same heights!
But don't be intimidated! Scroll down to the bottom of this newsletter for inspiration for newbies!

The Dreamer Arrives


by Mario Lorenz 
I have been involved with toastmasters for several years.  My wife, before we were married, invited me to a meeting of the Metropolitan Executive Toastmasters Club in Austin, Texas.   Ever since then outside of a couple years when I was on the road with my comedy show I have remained in one club or another and can honestly say that because of the training received in toastmasters it has enabled me to continue to avoid having a day job my entire life.  I have yet to become rich because of it, but I am not dead yet so there is still hope.

For the past 5-7 years I have kept a dream journal and most recently I have begun to try and draw, paint, color, or sketch the images I see in my dreams.  I never thought I was capable of drawing or painting.  I have always thought of myself as a performing artist but never did I think I was really the kind of artist that could draw something adequately.  Having a journal and with the courage to write my dreams down I have realized, with the encouragement of a dear friend, that I can draw or sketch some of the images that I see in my dreams.  They are not great works of art by any means, but in so doing, I have learned to “Remember that there are no mistakes, only the opportunity to overcome fear.”  It has become the same with toastmasters.  If I just have the courage to open my mouth and allow the words to come out.   Somehow they form into an expression of my thoughts.  They are not always insightful, humorous or wise thoughts, but they do come out and they do help me to overcome my fear of speaking.  Often the humor, wisdom and insight of a thought finds me and is then expressed.    

Recently, I became aware of the Seahawks Quarterback Russell Wilson who often uses this phrase.  “The Separation is in the preparation”.  As a result, I have come up with this formula that helps me when I remember to use it.  It is as if I were coming out of a dream.   1.) Wake up!  2.) Determine direction, 3.) Make preparations and 4.) Take Action.  So keep dreaming my fellow Toastmasters and when you wake up be fearless, confident, and follow that dream.


Toastmaster Magic ~ David Goodson


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There is a pleasure in watching new members journey from too nervous to speak more than 15 seconds to an accomplished speaker. The progress is great, but the process seems too simple. It boils down to attending meetings, reading 3-4 pages of instructions for a speech, giving a speech, rinse and repeat. Along the way at meetings, taking on a wide variety of roles each of which requires different speaking skills.
So what make this simple process so effective? My belief is that Toastmaster makes you aware of what works and what does not as a speaker. Each meeting is a workshop to observe different techniques and experiment with new ones. The supportive environment encourages taking risks, and everyone who takes a risk becomes a little better. Over time, all those little betters become a much bigger better.

That’s my take and I would love to hear what other member think.





Don't Be Daunted By Jock Elliott!
PUBLIC SPEAKING FOR BEGINNERS (Butterfly Taming 101) by Nikki Elledge Brown



Wednesday, February 3, 2016

Love & Leadership - February 2016 Newsletter

Tentative Facebook Banner by Secretary Steve - all who think this is awesome say AYE!!

President Garrett Recommends 

Garrett Leque recommends listening to the first 30 seconds of this 3.5 minute TED talk not for the content, but for the following two reasons:
· The intro: the speaker starts with “A few years ago…” instead of “Hi,” “Thank you,” etc.

· The pauses and clarity of the speech. No ahs, ums, etc. Good use of simple clear speech.

Membership VP David 

The Right Way To End An Email To A Client

David Goodson says: This is one of the most valuable email tips I have ever read - already working for me. The concept applies to speaking as well. I encourage everyone to read it, just makes good sense. 


BEFRIEND A GUEST by Mary Morrison 

I think a lot about an effective way to work with guests at BeGes and other Toastmasters meetings. At a recent meeting, I sat next to a guest. I could tell she was very nervous. She told me she was very scared of speaking, and one of her new year resolutions was to address that fear. I knew this was her first ever meeting. Even with all that information, and talking her through some steps after the meeting, I wonder if I missed a step with her.

I know the boundaries of what not to do: don't overwhelm guests like a swarm of bugs, and don't ignore them, as though they are invisible. So how do we let guests know that we welcome them, support them, encourage them so they take the next steps? Here are some suggestions:

1. Meet them where they are. If a guest is scared of public speaking, they are likely feeling that at a gut level. Let them know we can help them learn how to breathe through their fears and trembling and sweaty hands. They may not care about how Toastmasters helps with making a sale, they want to know they'll be safe and survive. On the other hand, a guest who is very comfortable speaking, and wants to hone their skills may love the chance to speak during Table Topics.

2. Assign a member to work with the guest during the meeting. They may have questions, not understand what's going, wonder what's coming next. Any member can befriend a guest, and it's one of our activities in the Competent Leader manual, project #8: Motivation.

3. Refer the guest to an officer, particularly the Vice President Membership, to take the next steps. I don't know all the specifics of what it takes to join BeGes: costs, how to get on the mailing list, how to get on the schedule, etc. The club officers will usually know that, and have the application for membership handy. Once that's filled in, they also know about the handoffs so the guest/new member gets oriented to club culture.

I've found that most people who have the courage to walk through the door to attend a meeting have likely done some research about Toastmasters. They are looking to say yes to membership, providing we pay attention to the cues they share about where they are, and what needs they are looking to meet. In reflecting on my recent experience, next time, I'll find a way to let club members know where the guest is: too scared to breath? ready to jump right in? Doing so can make us a more effective team.


Last but not least - another illustration by our illustrious
Secretary Steve Garvin.
Because who doesn't love a round, brown, kitty kat?
UPCOMING EVENTS:

Beges Speech Contest!
March 4th & 11th
March 16 - 26, 2016
Division contests 
April 1 - 9, 2016.

2016 Spring Conference
April 29, 30, and May 1, 2016
LaQuinta Inn in Tacoma, WA.
Fun, exciting, and educational!
Our keynote speakers will be:
Region 1's TM Int.'l Director, Margaret Page
District 2's Omar Rivas!

Fridays, 12-1pm